Monday, May 10, 2010

Mothers--very special people

This is Margaret Daley here. A couple of years ago I posted this on a blog about brave women. It is a tribute to my mother and since yesterday was Mother's Day, I wanted to post it again. No matter how long my mother has been gone, she is never far from my thoughts and she had a huge influence on the type of person I am today.

Catherine David

As I thought about writing this blog and talking about a woman who was brave, I immediately thought about my mother. In fact, no one else came to mind except her. She’s been dead for over eight years now and I miss her every day. But I’m comforted by the knowledge that she touched so many people’s lives.

After my father died when I was twelve, she moved us to Mississippi so she could be nearer her family. There were three of us and she always was there for my two brothers and me. She’d taught nursing in Kentucky where we had lived. When we arrived in Biloxi, she went to work as a nurse. She filled several different positions in various hospitals over the years and even taught nursing at the junior college on the coast.

One year she was a school nurse for the Biloxi School District. That was the year Camille, a hurricane with winds over two hundred miles an hour, struck the coast and destroyed a lot of my hometown. She spent hours helping people get back on their feet as a nurse and friend. When something had to be done, my mother was at the front of the line volunteering to do it.

When she would talk about one of her patients dying, you would have thought it was her best friend. That was the way she was. She felt deeply another’s pain and was there to help the person get better. She was a caregiver and a deeply religious woman whose faith in the Lord never wavered through loss, illness and destruction (more than Hurricane Camille wrecked havoc on the coast where she lived).

When my mother retired from being Director of Nursing at Biloxi Regional Medical Center, the Board of Directors said:
Catherine David has been an inspiration to the nursing profession. She was a moving force and leader in the establishment of Cardiopulmonary Resuscitation Coastwide. She had shown genuine concern for the welfare of the patients and has demonstrated support and concern for physicians, employees and people of the community.

That was my mother, a caring, loving, concerned Christian. I miss you every day, Mom.


Lynette Eason said...

Margaret, what a beautiful tribute to your mother. I feel so grateful I got to spend part of the day with mine. I don't think I take that for granted anymore and try to cherish each moment with her.


Leann said...

Margaret, my mother, too, is a nurse. And there's no one else who I'd admire more. She had a gift of nursing. What I mean is she knew when something wasn't right with her patient and would do something about it, even if it was getting the doctor to her patient.

My mom is still with me, and is still a wonder.

Debby Giusti said...

How special your mom was, Margaret. I lost my mom when I was young, and I've missed her ever since. I thought yesterday of my wonderful children and the special bond we have...a bond I first experieced through the love of my own mom. Hopefully, the love I pass on to my children will help make them be better parents as well.

Margaret Daley said...

Thanks, Lynette, Leann and Debby. My mother has been gone for 10 years. I lost my father when I was 12.